An informal survey question for nonvirgin girls or women...?

wen u meet a guy, wat is it u look for. is it more the inisde or the outside that counts? i mean, i understand he must have a certain outer charm, but does height, build, "size" rlly have that much to do with it?? from an overall, general standpoint, to b able to spend ur life with a man... do these factors rlly play such a big role as most men believe??